For Tech Program Managers who lead at work but feel like a ghost at home.
The 5-Day Systems Dad Reset gives you the exact framework to reclaim 20+ hours a week — and show up fully for both.
Join the Technical Leaders building systems with soul.
You run a tight ship at work.
Clear owners. Recurring syncs. Clean documentation.
Then you go home to "nagging," lost grocery lists, and school email chaos.
That’s a System Failure.
When you're physically home, but your brain is still stuck in a 3 PM roadmap. You're nod-and-smiling while they talk about their day.
The constant mental load of "Did we remember the soccer cleats?" and "What's for dinner?" that drains your energy before you even start your day.
The fight to give your family your full attention in an age of infinite distractions and asynchronous work cycles.
If you don't build a system for your home, you will continue to spend your best hours on your worst tasks.
It doesn't have to be this way.
Diagnose where your energy is actually going.
Find the "Executive Residue."
Subtract the noise before you add any systems.
Start the day with calm, not chaos.
No more shouting for shoes at 7:55 AM.
Automate your family transitions.
Set up a central "Family API" for logistics.
One source of truth for groceries, repairs, and sports.
Stop micro-managing. Start leading.
Ensure you and your partner are on the same page.
Standardize the "difficult" conversations.
Reduce friction by default.
Lock in the "Weekly Dad Review."
End the weekend scramble.
Walk into Monday with clarity and margin.
I have 20 years of total career experience, including 15 years in Big Tech as a Program Manager.
I built systems for $10M+ projects and managed hundreds of cross-functional loops.
But at 5:30 PM, I’d walk through my front door and hit a wall of chaos.
I was a "high-performer" at the office and a "bottleneck" at home.
I built Systems Dad to bridge that gap.
We apply professional rigor to our families so we can stop chasing the "chore loop."
Start being present for the people who actually matter.
Tackle the high-impact projects that actually move your career forward.
Focused time. Phones away. Actually listening to the beetle stories.
Rest. Hobbies. The gym. Being more than just a provider.
Systems subtract labor. The goal of this Reset is to automate the repetitive "administrative" parts of parenting so you have less to think about, not more.
Yes. We use logic-first principles. Whether you use Notion, a shared iPhone note, or a physical whiteboard, the systems remain the same.
The email course is 5 days. Each lesson takes about 4 minutes to read. The goal is immediate implementation and quick wins.
Join the Reset today and get the first lesson delivered instantly to your inbox.
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